Recently I realised how big a mistake it was to go by a professional and the vibes of the theme, ....the result, an embarrassment. The debate was presented in a lame manner. You know we shouldn't really care which party in the debate you support, as long as you have firm points and facts attached to it.
So being on a dependant status, already sucks, especially if you are nurtured to become independent. To add salt to this injury, you have people querying when you would settle with a job , to which i want to say -" I don't make the rules ", but of course I can't, cos I don't want to be rude!
Yea, so here you are present a debate as to why can't the spouse work and instead of conveying the spouses as a smart, intelligent individuals- whining weaklings was put across. so if the woman had a car , she wouldn't be stuck at home ( how lame)....but how can a 1 income household possibly maintain 2 cars? Even education is expensive these days, so how much can be supported ! Now we certainly don't want a bad decision of running into debts in the long run!
Well, life has never been simple and we would definitely undergo more circumstances to deal with, but the point is we are doing as much as we can. Taking up short-term affordable courses, fitness classes, making new friends , improvise house hold skills and gradually learning to live in the new place.
I would say while I have learnt a lesson, don't always go by what is printed, put your thoughts through and I am sure we can discard a bad debate.
So being on a dependant status, already sucks, especially if you are nurtured to become independent. To add salt to this injury, you have people querying when you would settle with a job , to which i want to say -" I don't make the rules ", but of course I can't, cos I don't want to be rude!
Yea, so here you are present a debate as to why can't the spouse work and instead of conveying the spouses as a smart, intelligent individuals- whining weaklings was put across. so if the woman had a car , she wouldn't be stuck at home ( how lame)....but how can a 1 income household possibly maintain 2 cars? Even education is expensive these days, so how much can be supported ! Now we certainly don't want a bad decision of running into debts in the long run!
Well, life has never been simple and we would definitely undergo more circumstances to deal with, but the point is we are doing as much as we can. Taking up short-term affordable courses, fitness classes, making new friends , improvise house hold skills and gradually learning to live in the new place.
I would say while I have learnt a lesson, don't always go by what is printed, put your thoughts through and I am sure we can discard a bad debate.
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